Mastering Cocktail fashion: A Guide to flawless elegance

Style With Ann is backkk.

Cocktail events come and go, and with the holidays approaching, office parties and other similar events may be popping up. Because cocktail dress code falls between formal and casual fashion, most people struggle to balance comfort, elegance, and sleekness when dressing up for cocktail events. But I’ve gotcha. In this post, we’ll be looking at how best to slay every cocktail event, quick tips, and mistakes you’d want to avoid.

So what exactly is a cocktail attire?

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A cocktail attire or outfit lies between Formal/black tie and casual. ie it is semiformal. It is more classy and polished than a casual outfit, but more relaxed and laid-back than a black-tie or Formal outfit, blending style with comfort.

Let’s get into what you need to look at when building your ultimate cocktail outfit .

Colours

Colour plays a very critical role here. You would want to opt for neutrals(neutrals are always super safe). There is something about subtle colours that exude this kind of elegance so effortlessly. Colours like darker shades of blue, red, and green are also accepted

Clothing Option

Since you’d want to be between the formal official fashion and casual, and to not look over the top, avoid clothing like tuxedos, floor-length dresses /gowns. To avoid looking too casual (like you’re going on a girls’ day out or something), steer clear of T-shirts, jeans, sweatpants, baggy pants, cargo pants, and hoodies.

Appropriate wardrobe items you could go for include: Well-fitted suits, blazers, dress shirts or turtlenecks, Midi dresses, an LBD( little black dress), a very classy jumpsuit, slacks, and blouses. Make sure these items, if opted for, are well-tailored, comfortable, and not too showy.

Accesories

For footwear, just stay away from sneakers, flipflops, trainers,and try to avoid flat sandals as well. Opt instead, for : Dress shoes ( well polished of course), Heels , boots , loafers and flat shoes like ballerina flats

For jewelry…”Less is more.” Your jewelry shouldn’t compete for attention with your clothes; rather, it should complement them. Also, avoid overly bold, colourful, chunky, or over-the-top jewelry.

Neckties if worn, should be classic silk ties in solid colours or simple prints.

Handbags?? No, Clutch is the way to go. Pair your outfit with a matching or complementary clutch. Very cute and handy. Handbags are way too bulky for these occasions.

Makeup should be neat, clean and controlled.

For hair, there are so many options you can choose from: A nice shave, waves, Updos, buns, ponytails, soft volume, and face-framing pieces. It’s really up to you, what you are comfy with, and how well it matches with your outfit ( Pro-tip: Opt for updos, buns, or hairstyle that are not ” let down” if your outfits come up your neck)

This Style Guide is your ticket to turning heads at any cocktail event.

Dressing according to the event’s dress code, especially for cocktails, is key. It shows you’re serious, approachable, confident, competent, and reliable โ€“ basically, it sets the tone for how people perceive you, and in a corporate and social setting, that’s everything.

And so take your time, choose comfort with class, and choose you. You can check out the gallery for more inspirationhttps://stylewithann.fashion.blog/gallery/. I do hope you find this post helpful. Don’t forget to drop a like, share your thoughts below, and hit us up on social media for more tips and fashion inspiration.

Merry Christmas. Make sure not to forget the real reason for this season- the love God has for us revealed through Jesus Christ.

Ciao. ๐Ÿ™‚

LAST MINUTE THANKSGIVING STYLE GUIDE ๐Ÿ‚๐Ÿฆƒ

I know it’s been a while since my last update (academic duties)….. but I’m back for now๐Ÿค—

Thanksgiving is just hours away and for those who would be at gatherings and dinners and are still unsure of what to wear…..I think I’ve got you.

Here’s a last minute THANKSGIVING STYLE GUIDE

  • LET’S START WITH THE TEXTURES …

Corduroyย , Suede, wool, waffle knit, tweed, faux leather,cashmere, denim and organic cotton are the best not only because they are going to keep you warm but they add a fall aesthetic appeal๐Ÿ๐Ÿงก

  • NOW THE COLOURS
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You could just play around with the classic fall colours ( brown ,earth tones, ,orange, burgundy, etc. ). or you can do earthy pinks and dark greens. It is really up to you and what you have at the moment.

  • ACCESSORIES

Throw in a scarf , boots -ankle or thigh high . A cute bag and some subtle jewellery

  • NOW THE FITS

Here are some ideas:

  • A sweater dress, black leggings and thigh high boots
  • Sweatshirt, sleek pants and some loafers
  • Classic shirt or bodysuit and jeans, throw on a blazer or jacket…and heels/boots/sneakers
  • A maxi dress and heels
  • Turtleneck, pants( jeans,slacks,leggings), boots, blazer or jacket
  • A wrap dress
  • Velvet skirt , faux leather/leather boots
  • T-shirt, sweater vest ,pants
  • White button-up shirt , dark green pants , leather shoes
  • V-NECK sweater , scarf , pants or skirt , heals or sneakers

This post is so late , but better late than never right ? ๐Ÿ™ƒI hopeย you found this very helpful. Tell me what you think in the comments section. Don’t forget to like and Share. For more of these you could reach out via X or Pinterest ๐Ÿ‘‡ .

Remember to be thankful for everything , even the little things๐Ÿ™ . Ciao๐Ÿ‘‹

OOTD ๐ŸคŽ๐Ÿ’™ 24/06/2024

Hiya ๐Ÿ‘‹

Just wanted to share one of the outfits I put together. This outfit is actually the inspiration for my next post: โœจStyling Navyโœจ (watch out for it ๐Ÿ˜Š)

So I just went for a navy button up shirt with polka dots and cream beige straight legged pants, a brown watch and brown flats for the footwear.

Here’s the colour scheme I went for :

This is it. Hope you liked it. Let me know what you think in the comments section below or via X , mail or Pinterest

Watch out for โœจ Styling Navy โœจ. See you soon.

The 25th Telecel Ghana Music Awards – TGMAโค๏ธ๐Ÿ–ค

I always look forward to this one Saturday night of Awards, Music, Culture and of course my favourite…. Fashion. Last night Ghanaian music and artistes were celebrated.  ๐ŸŽ‰

It was as joyous as always with all the glitz and the glam . The stars didn’t disappoint in the fashion as well. Here are a couple of looks I loved from the Red Carpet and the main event as well.

Chrystal ๐Ÿงก

Nathaniel Attoh

Nana Yaw Ofori Atta

Lydia Forson’s hair ๐Ÿฅนโœจ

Noella๐Ÿ–ค

Naceee๐Ÿซถ

We’ve got AJ Sarpong here ๐Ÿ˜˜

Eno and Akwaboah
Lordina The Soprano ๐ŸŽถ
Kwame Eugene

Favourite….. Adina Thembi embracing culture โœจ

GMB 2023 Queen ๐Ÿ‘‘
And our lovely hosts: Chris Atto and Naa Ashokor
Originality from King Promise ๐Ÿฉต๐Ÿฉถ

Okayyy…so KMJ here was going for the Bridgerton Theme ๐Ÿ˜„

Piesie Esther

Well ….. These were some of my favourites. Hope you loved them too.

Don’t forget to like and Share and tell me what you think in the comments section below. Reach out for more exciting content via X and Pinterest

Congratulations to all Award Winners ๐Ÿ†. And kudos to 25 years of honouring and celebrating our brilliant music and stars. โœจ. The People. Music. Culture….. It’s Ghana๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ญโค๏ธto the whole world.

๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿ‘‹ See you soon .

HEADWEAR – ACCESSORIZE โœจ (The series)

Headwear range from fedoras, sunhats, hijabs, caps to berets, fascinators, tiaras , beanies and numerous other ones . Apart from serving as design features, they also protect from the sun ๐ŸŒž , keep the head warm during winter โ„๏ธ and come to rescue during a bad hair day ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿคญ.

There are a lot of headwear and each of them have distinctive features and functions. They are very easy to style yet headwear like hats and caps come with some rules and guides you must follow when you wear them .

Hat etiquette for men.

Your hat should be off when :

  • Being introduced.
  • Greeting
  • The national anthem is being played/sung
  • A flag is being hoisted
  • Indoors
  • At the table (mealtime)
  • At religious service/ house of worship (unless hats are required /allowed. For instance: the Taqiyah/kufi worn by Muslims. )

Hats should be on when :

  • Outdoors
  • In public transport
  • At athletic events

Women’s hat etiquette

*This only applies to fashion hats

Hats should be on at:

  • Anytime. Unlike the men, women can wear their hats at anytime

Hats should be off when:

  • It obstructs another persons view at the cinema or during weddings
  • At work , unless required by the job

During the evenings top hats are permissible for men ( though, hats are quite rare these days for men๐Ÿคท) . For women, wide brim hats should be off after sunset because these hats are usually for shielding the face from the sun ๐ŸŒž so there is no need for them once the sun goes down . Fascinators and tiaras are appropriate in the evening.

Fun fact

Did you know that a chef’s hat has one hundred folds๐Ÿ‘จโ€๐Ÿณ๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐Ÿณ which represent the hundred ways an egg can be cooked . Cool. Right?

Caps, unless baseball caps follow the same rules of the hat etiquette for men. These rules apply to both sexes in this context. However, baseball caps can be worn at sporting events whether indoors or outdoors.

Fascinators

Fascinators…… fancy. These glamorous headpieces are usually worn for weddings. They come in different shapes, sizes and designs. Fascinators are not always extravagant there are simple styled ones too. Styling a fascinator is quite easy, . It just has to match with or complement your dress and other accessories

When wearing a large fascinator with lots of details, go low with the jewelry especially on the ears and neck . If you’ll be wearing a fascinator for long hours, make sure it’s light-weighted and it is fastened properly (you don’t want your fascinator falling of in the middle of a wedding ceremony.)

Headbands

Fitness headband/sweatband

Fitness headbands keep hair from your face during workouts ๐Ÿ’ช. They also absorb sweat๐Ÿ’ฆto prevent it from running down all over your face.

Spa/skincare headband

Spa headbands are solely meant to be worn during skincare time or makeup application to keep hair away from the face. They shouldn’t be worn outside as part of an outfit.

Fashion headbands

Flowers ๐ŸŒบ , sequins , pearls , or just solid plain . Fashion headbands come in varieties and are go to accessories. They can be made of different materials like metal , plastic, or cloth . I prefer metal and cloth ones, they’re durable

Hair clips, ties and pins

They help keep your hair in place, whether it’s a ponytail or a messy bun and at the same time providing a touch of glam. Consider how a scrunchie adds more detail to a ponytail.

Headwrap/ scarf

Head scarfs are probably the most worn head accessory here in Africa. It is very versatile and the way they are twisted , turned and tied by African women is just an artful sight to behold.

Choosing headwear

During the fall๐Ÿ, winter โ„๏ธ and monsoon๐ŸŒง๏ธ seasons hats or headwear like knit caps and felt hats are the most suitable, because they are made of heavy fabric and materials and they will keep your head warm and cozy all day. โ˜บ๏ธ

In summer๐Ÿ–๏ธ, spring๐ŸŒทand harmattan โ˜€๏ธ, wide brim and light hats like sun hats and straw hats are the best. They don’t absorb a lot of heat and they’ll shield your face from the sun. They match with almost everything, dresses , shorts ,…. everything

The next time you decide to put on headwear consider; how long you’ll be wearing it for , climate factors and the occasion . Be creative with them and make sure to observe those etiquettes ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰

I do hope that this post got you informed. There’ll be more coming your way on ACCESSORIZE โœจ ( The series). Make sure you don’t miss it. Like, tell me what you think in the comments section and share.

Thanks for reading ๐Ÿ™‚. See you soon ๐Ÿ‘‹

SUIT ACCESSORIES – ACCESSORIZE โœจ (The series)

SUIT ACCESSORIES๐Ÿ‘”

Suits , as we all know are usually for professional and formal settings and others like weddings. However , we have : business formal, business professional , business casual and casual under professional outfits. The accessories you choose can determine which of the four categories your outfit falls under. The accessories under this category are usually used or worn any how, so this post ( the first one of the series) , is all about suit accessories.

1. TIE

Ties are the commonly known and used suit accessory . They are very necessary and mandatory in every formal outfit especially for males. Choosing the appropriate tie to suit an outfit for a particular setting is quite tricky.

The usual conservative solid black,navy or burgundy usually does the trick but make sure it complements the outfit . In the same way patterned ties could work . When I say patterned I don’t mean bold and colourful floral prints , I mean striped, birdseye , graph checked, and the other classics with appropriate toned down or dark neutral colours for a business formal outfit.

For black tie,/evening events you can go for a bow tie or something similar to business formal. For weddings๐Ÿ’ you can go for bow ties too and pastel coloured , the classics or pretty patterned ties. Always make sure that the tie isn’t too loose or too tight. The tie must be long enough to touch the waistline of your trousers or slightly touch your belt’s buckle but it shouldn’t cross the buckle.

2. Pocket square

Pocket squares are meant to complement a tie . Never match a tie directly to a pocket square. In choosing a pocket square, selecting a patterned one with some or similar colours to the tie will be ok. You can also go for classic white( to be safe) or be experimental with patterns and colours but be mindful of the fact that a wrong choice can destroy your look. Pocket squares must not clash with the tie in terms of colour and pattern instead they must complement as said earlier.

3. Tie clip/bar

The role of tie clips or bars is to hold/fasten a tie to the shirt. Tie clips must be located between the third and fourth button of the shirt. They should be ยฝ-ยพ of the width across the tie ( not to long all the way, not too short ๐Ÿ‘). A tie clip/band is needless when you’re wearing a three piece suit (ie. Trousers,vest/waistcoat and jacket) because the waistcoat/vest holds the tie in place . The tie clip would be useless in that outfit.

4. Cufflinks

Cufflinks are usually put on french cuff shirts . They’re so small and cute yet they make a statement โœจ. Cool . Match cufflinks with the other metals in your outfit. Gold =gold, silver=silver.

5. Lapel pin

Lapel pins are worn on the upper left lapel of a suit jacket. They sometimes symbolize achievements ๐ŸŽ–๏ธ๐ŸŽ–๏ธ and belongingness to a particular society, organization or country. The flower lapel pins ๐ŸŒบ๐ŸŒผ are usually worn for weddings, prom and other related events.

Note:

  • Eliminating the necktie/bowtie makes your outfit business casual/casual . It’s laid back and appropriate for a casual work environment.
  • Match the metals in your outfit.i.e . The metal of your belt buckle, cufflinks, lapel pins,tie clips , shoes and watches must all match . If you’re going for a silver tie clip makes sure the other metals are also silver.
  • Match the leather of your shoes and belt in your outfit. If it’s black leather, make sure it runs through out .
  • For business formal don’t wear brightly coloured socks ๐Ÿงฆ. Stick to the dark colours like navy , black and brown. And make sure they are long enough.

The next time you wear a suit I hope you consider these few factors to help make the appropriate choices for any setting.

There’s more to come your way on ACCESSORIZE โœจ (The series) . Share your thoughts and concerns in the comments section. ๐Ÿ‘ Like and share if you liked it. I urge that you don’t miss the next post and the other posts in this series.

๐Ÿ‘‹Have a lovely day ๐Ÿค—.

ACCESSORIZE โœจ ( The series )

Accessories have great worth and significance in fashion. These date way back to thousands of centuries before where gloves ๐Ÿงค , fans , pocket watches and monocles๐Ÿง๐Ÿ˜…were dominant. Even though times have changed, accessories are still a very important part of fashion.

Accessories are almost similar to icing on a cake ๐ŸŽ‚ . Some accessories also provide functions like warmth , protection and storage apart from adding pizzazz to your clothes. Accessories are meant to complement what’s already there ,bring out understated components and pull the look together to form a complete outfit.

Accessories, when worn rightly can create a stunning look but when worn wrongly can totally mess up everything. Sometimes we don’t know what accessories to wear for which occasion, how to wear them or the rules associated with wearing them . Other times, we also fail to acknowledge the versatility of some accessories.

Did you know that, there are some watches you can’t wear with a formal suit? . Or that you can’t wear some accessories during certain times of the day?

ACCESORIZE โœจ(The series) is a comprehensive collection of blog posts about accesorizing which I’ll be bringing to you . Make sure you don’t miss out on any of them. ๐Ÿ™‚

If you have any specific concerns, tips and suggestions about accesorizing, don’t hesitate to reach out through the comments section or via Pinterest and Email ๐Ÿ™‚. Thank you ๐Ÿ‘‹ . P.S. Don’t miss out

COLOURS (PARTII)

Hi everyone. I promised to bring you the second part of COLOURS and here it is . If you’ve not seen the first part , you can check it out ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡

COLOURS (PART I)

Neutrals and warm colours were talked about in the first part so we’re moving straight to cool and pastel colours.

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  • COOL COLOURS ๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’œ

Cool colours are colours which contain hues of blue. As their name suggest , they signify calmness , serenity, freshness, fertility,royalty, life and luxury. ๐Ÿ”นBlue , green , purple , royal blue, turquoise,emerald , mauve ,lime and many other ones of similar shades are cool colours . Cool colours are so diverse . They could be worn in almost everyway , everywhere.

For me , evening gowns and outfits are at the peak of their elegance and luxury when they’re in cool colours. These same colours make jewels look breathtaking.

  • PASTEL COLOURS

Pastel colours are basically lighter shades of all colours. They are made by tinting (mixing white into other colours to make them look pale and soft ). For instance: tinting green will give you pastel colour- Mint, tinting blue will give you Baby/Powder blue. Lavender, blush, millennial pink, lemon and others form part of this category too.

Pastel colours are one of my ultimate favorites because they give of calming and relaxing vibes.๐Ÿ’“๐ŸŒธ They can uplift moods in a not so loud way like warm colours. Pastel colours are also easy on the eyes on suggest openness and friendliness ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ˜Š.

Pastel colours are usually seen in baby’s clothing and bridal party gown and suites.

Tip : Recommended if you’re meeting people for the first time, to create a welcoming effect.

Suggestions and tips๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡

1.Officeโžก๏ธ Dark cool colours and Neutrals. **Colours to avoid โžก๏ธwarm colours

2. Weddings โžก๏ธ Pastels, Light Neutrals , Black/navy (suit ).

**Colours to avoid โžก๏ธ Plain Black

3. Outings/Parties/Picnics โžก๏ธ Pastels , Warm colours, Light Cool Colours.

4. Evening/BlackTieโžก๏ธ Dark Neutrals ( eg. Black), Dark Warm Colours (eg. Scarlet) , Dark Cool Colours .

**Colours to avoid โžก๏ธ Overly bright colours .

This is all I have on Colours now. I hope that now that you have these few insights on colours, you’ll consider them in your style choices. ๐Ÿ˜Š

I appreciate your views, likes , support and positive comments. Keep them coming and keep sharing. If you have any tips , suggestions, requests or questions you can reach out to me via Pinterest or EMAIL. โฌ‡๏ธโฌ‡๏ธ

๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿ˜Šโค๏ธโค๏ธSee you soon and always remember to Be yourself (appropriately) in what you wear .