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Mastering Cocktail fashion: A Guide to flawless elegance

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Style With Ann is backkk.

Cocktail events come and go, and with the holidays approaching, office parties and other similar events may be popping up. Because cocktail dress code falls between formal and casual fashion, most people struggle to balance comfort, elegance, and sleekness when dressing up for cocktail events. But I’ve gotcha. In this post, we’ll be looking at how best to slay every cocktail event, quick tips, and mistakes you’d want to avoid.

So what exactly is a cocktail attire?

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A cocktail attire or outfit lies between Formal/black tie and casual. ie it is semiformal. It is more classy and polished than a casual outfit, but more relaxed and laid-back than a black-tie or Formal outfit, blending style with comfort.

Let’s get into what you need to look at when building your ultimate cocktail outfit .

Colours

Colour plays a very critical role here. You would want to opt for neutrals(neutrals are always super safe). There is something about subtle colours that exude this kind of elegance so effortlessly. Colours like darker shades of blue, red, and green are also accepted

Clothing Option

Since you’d want to be between the formal official fashion and casual, and to not look over the top, avoid clothing like tuxedos, floor-length dresses /gowns. To avoid looking too casual (like you’re going on a girls’ day out or something), steer clear of T-shirts, jeans, sweatpants, baggy pants, cargo pants, and hoodies.

Appropriate wardrobe items you could go for include: Well-fitted suits, blazers, dress shirts or turtlenecks, Midi dresses, an LBD( little black dress), a very classy jumpsuit, slacks, and blouses. Make sure these items, if opted for, are well-tailored, comfortable, and not too showy.

Accesories

For footwear, just stay away from sneakers, flipflops, trainers,and try to avoid flat sandals as well. Opt instead, for : Dress shoes ( well polished of course), Heels , boots , loafers and flat shoes like ballerina flats

For jewelry…”Less is more.” Your jewelry shouldn’t compete for attention with your clothes; rather, it should complement them. Also, avoid overly bold, colourful, chunky, or over-the-top jewelry.

Neckties if worn, should be classic silk ties in solid colours or simple prints.

Handbags?? No, Clutch is the way to go. Pair your outfit with a matching or complementary clutch. Very cute and handy. Handbags are way too bulky for these occasions.

Makeup should be neat, clean and controlled.

For hair, there are so many options you can choose from: A nice shave, waves, Updos, buns, ponytails, soft volume, and face-framing pieces. It’s really up to you, what you are comfy with, and how well it matches with your outfit ( Pro-tip: Opt for updos, buns, or hairstyle that are not ” let down” if your outfits come up your neck)

This Style Guide is your ticket to turning heads at any cocktail event.

Dressing according to the event’s dress code, especially for cocktails, is key. It shows you’re serious, approachable, confident, competent, and reliable – basically, it sets the tone for how people perceive you, and in a corporate and social setting, that’s everything.

And so take your time, choose comfort with class, and choose you. You can check out the gallery for more inspirationhttps://stylewithann.fashion.blog/gallery/. I do hope you find this post helpful. Don’t forget to drop a like, share your thoughts below, and hit us up on social media for more tips and fashion inspiration.

Merry Christmas. Make sure not to forget the real reason for this season- the love God has for us revealed through Jesus Christ.

Ciao. 🙂

My two favourite things to wear

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What are your two favorite things to wear?

Hi ….. Here’s my answer to this prompt 🤍😊

My two favourite things to wear are

  • A pink 🩷 dress

A pink dress is what I go for is I just don’t have any idea of what to wear ….. It works for me 😊. I don’t know if it will for everyone though 🤷‍♀️??

  • Bracelets

I can say bracelets are the jewellery I wear the most. I just love them .

LAST MINUTE THANKSGIVING STYLE GUIDE 🍂🦃

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I know it’s been a while since my last update (academic duties)….. but I’m back for now🤗

Thanksgiving is just hours away and for those who would be at gatherings and dinners and are still unsure of what to wear…..I think I’ve got you.

Here’s a last minute THANKSGIVING STYLE GUIDE

  • LET’S START WITH THE TEXTURES …

Corduroy , Suede, wool, waffle knit, tweed, faux leather,cashmere, denim and organic cotton are the best not only because they are going to keep you warm but they add a fall aesthetic appeal🍁🧡

  • NOW THE COLOURS
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You could just play around with the classic fall colours ( brown ,earth tones, ,orange, burgundy, etc. ). or you can do earthy pinks and dark greens. It is really up to you and what you have at the moment.

  • ACCESSORIES

Throw in a scarf , boots -ankle or thigh high . A cute bag and some subtle jewellery

  • NOW THE FITS

Here are some ideas:

  • A sweater dress, black leggings and thigh high boots
  • Sweatshirt, sleek pants and some loafers
  • Classic shirt or bodysuit and jeans, throw on a blazer or jacket…and heels/boots/sneakers
  • A maxi dress and heels
  • Turtleneck, pants( jeans,slacks,leggings), boots, blazer or jacket
  • A wrap dress
  • Velvet skirt , faux leather/leather boots
  • T-shirt, sweater vest ,pants
  • White button-up shirt , dark green pants , leather shoes
  • V-NECK sweater , scarf , pants or skirt , heals or sneakers

This post is so late , but better late than never right ? 🙃I hope you found this very helpful. Tell me what you think in the comments section. Don’t forget to like and Share. For more of these you could reach out via X or Pinterest 👇 .

Remember to be thankful for everything , even the little things🙏 . Ciao👋

Necklines with the appropriate jewelry

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Perfect dress, perfect shirt , hair on fleek , flawless makeup but… should you go with the pendant or princess or collar necklace, maybe a simple chain?? Or keep it simple with no jewellery at all.

This is a drill most of might have gone through before or on the daily. Well… I’ve sampled,done a little search here and there and have found the most appropriate jewel for necklines. And hopefully, you’ll find this useful.

1. The classic crew/round neckline

For the crew/round necklines which we usually see in t-shirts, it’s advisable to keep it simple

A simple chain , pendant necklace or stacking a couple will do it . You could just go for some hoop earrings or nothing at all….(less is more).

2. The V neck

This very sleek neckline goes best with a collar necklace, simple chain , Lariat for elegance or a pendant necklace 😊

3. The Sweetheart neckline

Usually seen in gowns , evening dresses and blouses 🤭. They look better with princess necklaces , short gemstone pendant ones or none . The secret here is to choose a necklace that does not interfere with the curve of the neckline. It shouldn’t be long enough to cross the neckline.

4. Asymmetric necklines

Asymmetric necklines are already dramatic on their own and need noooo necklace. Just some earrings, dangling or stud or anything other with a statement bracelet will do 👍

5. Turtlenecks

These snuggly comforts 🤗 can be paired with layered chains , a simple chain , chunky or pearls .

6. The illusion neckline

The illusion neckline as we know, has a lot of intricate and pretty details. And you wouldn’t want to overshadow or overcrowd that with neck jewellery, would you? Exactly! Just some earrings and bracelets would do .

7. Off the shoulders

So much space for creativity. You could go  simple, you could go chocker , collar, beaded, princess. As long as you don’t interfere with the design or clash textures, you’ll look fab.

8. Square neckline

Angular , stacks/layered are the best here . Just bare with the earrings for minimalistic elegance 😉

9. The collar

This guide for the collar is mostly for unprofessional/non official outfits. This is where you can actually go bold, mild, chunky, simple, everything actually goes….. mostly.

10. Boat Neckline

The boat neckline is actually my favourite neckline of all time . It’s elegant and flaunting. For this neckline I suggest no neck jewellery . You could go for it, but the chances of it taking away the simple elegance is very high. The necklace must enhance not overwhelm .

11. Halter neckline

Going for Halter…. earrings are your choice. With some bracelets (statement, tennis, beaded or any other).

I know you found this very helpful. Tell me what you think in the comments section. Don’t forget to like and Share. For more of these you could reach out via X or Pinterest 👇 .

Be yourself in what you wear . See you 😊👋

HEADWEAR – ACCESSORIZE ✨ (The series)

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Headwear range from fedoras, sunhats, hijabs, caps to berets, fascinators, tiaras , beanies and numerous other ones . Apart from serving as design features, they also protect from the sun 🌞 , keep the head warm during winter ❄️ and come to rescue during a bad hair day 😉🤭.

There are a lot of headwear and each of them have distinctive features and functions. They are very easy to style yet headwear like hats and caps come with some rules and guides you must follow when you wear them .

Hat etiquette for men.

Your hat should be off when :

  • Being introduced.
  • Greeting
  • The national anthem is being played/sung
  • A flag is being hoisted
  • Indoors
  • At the table (mealtime)
  • At religious service/ house of worship (unless hats are required /allowed. For instance: the Taqiyah/kufi worn by Muslims. )

Hats should be on when :

  • Outdoors
  • In public transport
  • At athletic events

Women’s hat etiquette

*This only applies to fashion hats

Hats should be on at:

  • Anytime. Unlike the men, women can wear their hats at anytime

Hats should be off when:

  • It obstructs another persons view at the cinema or during weddings
  • At work , unless required by the job

During the evenings top hats are permissible for men ( though, hats are quite rare these days for men🤷) . For women, wide brim hats should be off after sunset because these hats are usually for shielding the face from the sun 🌞 so there is no need for them once the sun goes down . Fascinators and tiaras are appropriate in the evening.

Fun fact

Did you know that a chef’s hat has one hundred folds👨‍🍳👩‍🍳 which represent the hundred ways an egg can be cooked . Cool. Right?

Caps, unless baseball caps follow the same rules of the hat etiquette for men. These rules apply to both sexes in this context. However, baseball caps can be worn at sporting events whether indoors or outdoors.

Fascinators

Fascinators…… fancy. These glamorous headpieces are usually worn for weddings. They come in different shapes, sizes and designs. Fascinators are not always extravagant there are simple styled ones too. Styling a fascinator is quite easy, . It just has to match with or complement your dress and other accessories

When wearing a large fascinator with lots of details, go low with the jewelry especially on the ears and neck . If you’ll be wearing a fascinator for long hours, make sure it’s light-weighted and it is fastened properly (you don’t want your fascinator falling of in the middle of a wedding ceremony.)

Headbands

Fitness headband/sweatband

Fitness headbands keep hair from your face during workouts 💪. They also absorb sweat💦to prevent it from running down all over your face.

Spa/skincare headband

Spa headbands are solely meant to be worn during skincare time or makeup application to keep hair away from the face. They shouldn’t be worn outside as part of an outfit.

Fashion headbands

Flowers 🌺 , sequins , pearls , or just solid plain . Fashion headbands come in varieties and are go to accessories. They can be made of different materials like metal , plastic, or cloth . I prefer metal and cloth ones, they’re durable

Hair clips, ties and pins

They help keep your hair in place, whether it’s a ponytail or a messy bun and at the same time providing a touch of glam. Consider how a scrunchie adds more detail to a ponytail.

Headwrap/ scarf

Head scarfs are probably the most worn head accessory here in Africa. It is very versatile and the way they are twisted , turned and tied by African women is just an artful sight to behold.

Choosing headwear

During the fall🍁, winter ❄️ and monsoon🌧️ seasons hats or headwear like knit caps and felt hats are the most suitable, because they are made of heavy fabric and materials and they will keep your head warm and cozy all day. ☺️

In summer🏖️, spring🌷and harmattan ☀️, wide brim and light hats like sun hats and straw hats are the best. They don’t absorb a lot of heat and they’ll shield your face from the sun. They match with almost everything, dresses , shorts ,…. everything

The next time you decide to put on headwear consider; how long you’ll be wearing it for , climate factors and the occasion . Be creative with them and make sure to observe those etiquettes 😉😉

I do hope that this post got you informed. There’ll be more coming your way on ACCESSORIZE ✨ ( The series). Make sure you don’t miss it. Like, tell me what you think in the comments section and share.

Thanks for reading 🙂. See you soon 👋

SUIT ACCESSORIES – ACCESSORIZE ✨ (The series)

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SUIT ACCESSORIES👔

Suits , as we all know are usually for professional and formal settings and others like weddings. However , we have : business formal, business professional , business casual and casual under professional outfits. The accessories you choose can determine which of the four categories your outfit falls under. The accessories under this category are usually used or worn any how, so this post ( the first one of the series) , is all about suit accessories.

1. TIE

Ties are the commonly known and used suit accessory . They are very necessary and mandatory in every formal outfit especially for males. Choosing the appropriate tie to suit an outfit for a particular setting is quite tricky.

The usual conservative solid black,navy or burgundy usually does the trick but make sure it complements the outfit . In the same way patterned ties could work . When I say patterned I don’t mean bold and colourful floral prints , I mean striped, birdseye , graph checked, and the other classics with appropriate toned down or dark neutral colours for a business formal outfit.

For black tie,/evening events you can go for a bow tie or something similar to business formal. For weddings💐 you can go for bow ties too and pastel coloured , the classics or pretty patterned ties. Always make sure that the tie isn’t too loose or too tight. The tie must be long enough to touch the waistline of your trousers or slightly touch your belt’s buckle but it shouldn’t cross the buckle.

2. Pocket square

Pocket squares are meant to complement a tie . Never match a tie directly to a pocket square. In choosing a pocket square, selecting a patterned one with some or similar colours to the tie will be ok. You can also go for classic white( to be safe) or be experimental with patterns and colours but be mindful of the fact that a wrong choice can destroy your look. Pocket squares must not clash with the tie in terms of colour and pattern instead they must complement as said earlier.

3. Tie clip/bar

The role of tie clips or bars is to hold/fasten a tie to the shirt. Tie clips must be located between the third and fourth button of the shirt. They should be ½-¾ of the width across the tie ( not to long all the way, not too short 👍). A tie clip/band is needless when you’re wearing a three piece suit (ie. Trousers,vest/waistcoat and jacket) because the waistcoat/vest holds the tie in place . The tie clip would be useless in that outfit.

4. Cufflinks

Cufflinks are usually put on french cuff shirts . They’re so small and cute yet they make a statement ✨. Cool . Match cufflinks with the other metals in your outfit. Gold =gold, silver=silver.

5. Lapel pin

Lapel pins are worn on the upper left lapel of a suit jacket. They sometimes symbolize achievements 🎖️🎖️ and belongingness to a particular society, organization or country. The flower lapel pins 🌺🌼 are usually worn for weddings, prom and other related events.

Note:

  • Eliminating the necktie/bowtie makes your outfit business casual/casual . It’s laid back and appropriate for a casual work environment.
  • Match the metals in your outfit.i.e . The metal of your belt buckle, cufflinks, lapel pins,tie clips , shoes and watches must all match . If you’re going for a silver tie clip makes sure the other metals are also silver.
  • Match the leather of your shoes and belt in your outfit. If it’s black leather, make sure it runs through out .
  • For business formal don’t wear brightly coloured socks 🧦. Stick to the dark colours like navy , black and brown. And make sure they are long enough.

The next time you wear a suit I hope you consider these few factors to help make the appropriate choices for any setting.

There’s more to come your way on ACCESSORIZE ✨ (The series) . Share your thoughts and concerns in the comments section. 👍 Like and share if you liked it. I urge that you don’t miss the next post and the other posts in this series.

👋Have a lovely day 🤗.

ACCESSORIZE ✨ ( The series )

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Accessories have great worth and significance in fashion. These date way back to thousands of centuries before where gloves 🧤 , fans , pocket watches and monocles🧐😅were dominant. Even though times have changed, accessories are still a very important part of fashion.

Accessories are almost similar to icing on a cake 🎂 . Some accessories also provide functions like warmth , protection and storage apart from adding pizzazz to your clothes. Accessories are meant to complement what’s already there ,bring out understated components and pull the look together to form a complete outfit.

Accessories, when worn rightly can create a stunning look but when worn wrongly can totally mess up everything. Sometimes we don’t know what accessories to wear for which occasion, how to wear them or the rules associated with wearing them . Other times, we also fail to acknowledge the versatility of some accessories.

Did you know that, there are some watches you can’t wear with a formal suit? . Or that you can’t wear some accessories during certain times of the day?

ACCESORIZE ✨(The series) is a comprehensive collection of blog posts about accesorizing which I’ll be bringing to you . Make sure you don’t miss out on any of them. 🙂

If you have any specific concerns, tips and suggestions about accesorizing, don’t hesitate to reach out through the comments section or via Pinterest and Email 🙂. Thank you 👋 . P.S. Don’t miss out

COLOURS (PARTII)

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Hi everyone. I promised to bring you the second part of COLOURS and here it is . If you’ve not seen the first part , you can check it out 👇👇👇

COLOURS (PART I)

Neutrals and warm colours were talked about in the first part so we’re moving straight to cool and pastel colours.

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  • COOL COLOURS 💚💙💜

Cool colours are colours which contain hues of blue. As their name suggest , they signify calmness , serenity, freshness, fertility,royalty, life and luxury. 🔹Blue , green , purple , royal blue, turquoise,emerald , mauve ,lime and many other ones of similar shades are cool colours . Cool colours are so diverse . They could be worn in almost everyway , everywhere.

For me , evening gowns and outfits are at the peak of their elegance and luxury when they’re in cool colours. These same colours make jewels look breathtaking.

  • PASTEL COLOURS

Pastel colours are basically lighter shades of all colours. They are made by tinting (mixing white into other colours to make them look pale and soft ). For instance: tinting green will give you pastel colour- Mint, tinting blue will give you Baby/Powder blue. Lavender, blush, millennial pink, lemon and others form part of this category too.

Pastel colours are one of my ultimate favorites because they give of calming and relaxing vibes.💓🌸 They can uplift moods in a not so loud way like warm colours. Pastel colours are also easy on the eyes on suggest openness and friendliness 🤗😊.

Pastel colours are usually seen in baby’s clothing and bridal party gown and suites.

Tip : Recommended if you’re meeting people for the first time, to create a welcoming effect.

Suggestions and tips👇👇

1.Office➡️ Dark cool colours and Neutrals. **Colours to avoid ➡️warm colours

2. Weddings ➡️ Pastels, Light Neutrals , Black/navy (suit ).

**Colours to avoid ➡️ Plain Black

3. Outings/Parties/Picnics ➡️ Pastels , Warm colours, Light Cool Colours.

4. Evening/BlackTie➡️ Dark Neutrals ( eg. Black), Dark Warm Colours (eg. Scarlet) , Dark Cool Colours .

**Colours to avoid ➡️ Overly bright colours .

This is all I have on Colours now. I hope that now that you have these few insights on colours, you’ll consider them in your style choices. 😊

I appreciate your views, likes , support and positive comments. Keep them coming and keep sharing. If you have any tips , suggestions, requests or questions you can reach out to me via Pinterest or EMAIL. ⬇️⬇️

👋😊❤️❤️See you soon and always remember to Be yourself (appropriately) in what you wear .

COLOURS (PART I)

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Colours matter a lot in Fashion . The colours we wear and how we wear them speak a lot about our outfits . In this post and other subsequent posts, I will be talking about some colours and their relevance and symbolism.

1. Let’s start with the NEUTRALS

Neutral colours could suggest, calm , purity and wholesomeness . Other people also see them as boring. White , black, brown , grey , ivory ,cream , beige , tan , khaki and many other colors and shades form part of neutrals . These colours are the best when you’re going for a minimalistic look🖤 . Most neutrals match with every color, they can really mix well and coordinate together(especially with accessories) and they do not draw much attention . In my opinion, neutrals are very essential in every wardrobe.

Tip * neutrals are good for office/ professional outfits*💼.

2. WARM COLOURS🏵️🌻🌹

Warm colours usually suggest, playfulness, joy , energy, intensity, vibrancy and even danger and warning.Some of such are :

  • Red
  • Yellow
  • Orange
  • Pink
  • Coral and many others

These colours draw a lot of attention to themselves and they could be noticed from far distances. Orange and yellow seem bubbly while coral and some shades of pink seem soft😊 . Warm colours are playful and usually associated with children’s fashion🙃. Fall/autumn aesthetic might also click into some minds when warm colours are mentioned 🍁🍄 [the shades of orange and red].

Tip#*it is not advisable to wear loud warm colours for professional occasions*

I do hope that you enjoyed the first part . PART II will be coming up soon 😉.In the mean time share your thoughts and tips on colours in the comment section , don’t forget like👍 and share too. And also if you’ve got any question and/or contributions about fashion and style or anything related you can write it out in the comment section through email or pinterest .👋👋